http://ybpguide.disqus.com/To empower African-Americans, and all people of color, with the knowledge and inspiration to foster progression and productivity in the community.enTue, 22 May 2007 21:29:20 -0000http://ybpguide.com/2007/05/21/the-rules-of-healthy-competition/#comment-2414548i know the exact feeling. don't feel bad or down about being competitive, dressing nice, or being the best.<br><br>although we're always taught to be humble, relish in the fact that when it comes down to it, you'll probably be asked to take on the big challenges.<br><br>you've proven it through your drive, moxy, and focus. in the end, these are the people that are the most successful.FredricTue, 22 May 2007 21:29:20 -0000http://ybpguide.com/2007/05/21/the-rules-of-healthy-competition/#comment-2414547I often catch myself downplaying my competitiveness in my current work environment. I currently work with a group of women who do not have drive and/or competitiveness. It is wrong but I often feel as though I am the only intelligent women in the bunch. I know this is wrong but thats they way I feel....to put things in perspective.....I was told I dress up too much by one of my co-workers.ShanteTue, 22 May 2007 21:25:41 -0000